Since young I have always believe being a true beauty require a combination of inner and outer beautiful. For years , I have been playing and trying different images to find my outer beauty , but I always doesn’t seem to find it . BECAUSE …….. I have been mimicking other people beauty , not my own unique outer beauty. I spend money on whitening injection , whitening pill , skin radiant pill… None of these achieve the effect that I want . A very fair and beautiful skin.
As I grow older , I realised that some things cannot be change . Example my skin is the easily Tan kind , I never get my dream fair skin like the Korean unless I go into extreme skin bleaching . One more , most of us just don’t have thigh GAP or skinny Long legs. Pls don’t go into extreme dieting and exercise because of how the media portray beauty. It’s totally a conditioning to let people trap in the never ending of spending money on outer beauty and material things.
Everyone of us is unique and special in our own way . Our body is created differently and learning to love yourself for who You are is very important. I have learn to be more secure with my body , I can’t say I am the clubby kind (1.55m , 48kg) . I used to slim until 44kg , but still no thigh gap !!!! So I accept my body as it is . Most important is I am healthy !!!!!
I realised that even if u have a beautiful slim , prefect body now but years down the road when you got older , your health deteriorate because of all the extreme dieting and exercising you done in the past, it’s totally not worth it to shorter your lifespan because of temporary beauty .
I feel that outer beauty is loving your body , take good care of your body , be healthy . I don’t denied cosmestic does enhance and bring out our best facial features. So just go ahead and use cosmestic !!!!!
As for inner beauty, inner cultivation , a good kind heart . From what I learn , inner beauty is the most difficult to achieve. We are no saint !!! So for me , being the best version i can be will be my guide to inner beauty , I no need to be like Mother Theresa or Dalai Lama. Unconditional love , the highest form of loving takes a lot of courage for a person to give unconditional love without expecting anything in return. I am cultivating this unconditional love , I know I still have a Long Long way to go.
Therefore to wrap up my journey , one person that came into my mind as true beauty is Princess Diana.
Thank you Universe
Love & light