Sometime , when Friends and family member say I’m fat or why Im meaty . I will take their bullshit remarks as real because they are close to me . I will think the whole day to myself , saying to myself in the mirror , “Am I really Fat ?”
What I see in the mirror is an average weight woman , who don’t have the legs and abs of a model . Who is not as skinner as a model .
Hello, I am a 1.55cm , 48kg … under the weight standard I am under the healthy weight range . I myself always call “FAT” BY PEOPLE CLOSE TO ME !!
what a shallow world it is . Imagine people who are really over weight , how would they feel . Even for me , it is hurting and I will take their stupid comments as real and THINK THAT I AM REALLY FAT .
I realised that my Brother and my Cousins who call me fat , ALL THEIR WIVES ARE SKINNER AS A MODEL !!
THEY USE THEIR WIFE AS A STANDARD MEASUREMENT !!
People use model or people close to them as a standard gauge .
This is Ridicules !! It is so not true!!
Quoted from theguardian.com
For now, there’s a lot to work on. As Lawrence said: ‘We’ve gotten so used to underweight that when you are a normal weight it’s like, “Oh, my God, she’s curvy.” Which is crazy.’
It’s only when I’m aware , I will catch their bullshit remarks . But most of the time my ego will take it as real . Be aware of what your ego persist as real .
I’m am an average weight woman who also encounter this kind of bully . I urge woman to ignore what those bullies really say . They just want your attention and to put you down and make you feel bad about yourself .
This is what the ego loves . To make themselves feel good , they put people down .
This world is control by egos . Only awareness , you will lead a more truthful life .
Just always think deeper when someone passes a remarks which might not be true .
I shall end my journal here .Thank you for reading
Love & Light