Hi all , I have been writing about my relationship most of my journal.
Today I will focus more on what are woman thoughts and feelings when she just not that into a guy . This is just solely my views and feelings as a woman , may not apply to all woman .
THE NO FEELING ZONE
I am a very straight forward kind of woman, every time when I know a guy friends likes me and I have no feelings toward him . The first thing I will do is avoid him at all costs.
I know it hurts when you declare your feelings to a woman and she yet she avoided you. I know I can be heartless , at least I don’t let the person who likes me , have misguided feelings and hope that someday I will go into a relationship with them .
It is better to have a faster “death” than a slow “death” . The man can just move on to another worthy woman rather than spending time , effort and money on a woman who totally don’t have any interest in them . This is real hurt .
For me , I am very clear of who I have feelings and who I don’t have feelings for . Man who fall under the NO FEELING ZONE , will normally got cold shoulder from me after they make their declaration .
Signs of NO FEELING ZONE
1) don’t reply your message
2) I always find excuses when you ask me for movie or date
3) always busy
4) even when going out as Friend , I will keep a distance and avoid body contact
5) I will never text or contact the person
This is the same when man have no feelings for a woman . The signs are quite obvious.
What most of the man experience in the dating world is
THE MIXED FEELING ZONE
I don’t understand why some woman don’t give a clear sign when they have no feelings for them .
My Guess will be the following :
1) don’t know how to reject
2) enjoy the chase and attention of man
4) still want to hold on to the friendship
( this is very complicating, the friendship is no longer there . Even if the friendship is preserved, it is never the same as last time . This will only further hurt the man . UNLESS that man is letting go and found another woman . It’s sucks to see the person you like marrying to another man . )
5) She is unsure of her feelings to you
I felt sorry for man who are under this zone .
My advise will be :
1) Be a wise man and FEEL the actual real feeling of this woman .
2) What is her intention?
3) Don’t let ego lead you , use your heart .
THE GOT FEELING ZONE
This is very simple and obvious. When woman have feelings for you , IT IS VERY OBVIOUS!!!
Signs of GOT FEELING ZONE
1) She will reply your text
2) whenever you ask her to go movie or a date , she will be very happy
3) she will ask you out
4) she will buy gifts for you
5) she will make food for you
The list is Long , anyway it’s obvious. Unless u are first time dating a woman , I don’t think it is hard looking for the signs.
**** There is one trick I can tell you to upgrade from MIXED FEELING ZONE TO GOT FEELING ZONE ****
ONLY USE WHEN YOU ARE REALLY TO PREPARE FOR AN EMBARRASSING REJECTION and END OF A FRIENDSHIP!!!!
** only use after 6 dates **
Hold her hand when you are out for dating or hold her hand during movie !!
If she is not into you , she will definitely be very angry . If she is interested in you , you lucky guy 🙂
I shall end my journal here , anything just text under comment , I will reply 🙂
Love & Light